Sorry about not posting yesterday. We had a long day as we went to Madelyn's orphanage which is almost 4 hours from Nanchang. What an experience! Our wonderful facilitator, Guilan, worked for three days to get us a good van to travel in. When we arrived in Taihe, Madelyn's orphanage director took us to the Civil Affairs building and treated us to an authentic Jaingxi province meal. We were offered black skinned chicken stew, frog legs (spotted skin still attached), dried pork, fish stew, and a lot of rice and vegetables. The ever-adventurous Stricklands stuck with the rice and vegetables. We then went to the very poor orphanage where Madelyn lived for almost a year. We were shown Madelyn's bed which was in a small room with 10 other small beds. No mattresses - only a reed mat. Most of the children were sitting on small bamboo potty chairs. We didn't see any toys at all. The director and the nannies seemed very happy to see our girls, and were very affectionate. Madelyn has developed a very red rash on her face due to the hotel sheets. The nannies were very upset about it, and I was told repeatedly that she never had a rash when she was with them - sigh!
Madelyn did not smile at all while we were there. She had a very worried look on her face, and she screamed when the nanny tried to put her in her old bed for a picture. She was very relieved when we got back into the van to leave. We also visited the clinic where Madelyn's parents left her when she was 6 weeks old. We knew that she had been left with a note, and the director let us take a picture of it. We also have a video of our facilitator reading the note that her parents wrote. There was not a dry eye in the room when she finished. Basically it said that they loved her very much, but due to some unfortunate circumstances they could not afford to keep her. They hoped someone would take pity on her and take her to their home and love her forever.
We left the orphanage with such mixed feelings - so happy for our girls, and so sad for the children left behind. The orphanage director seems to be very determined to have as many children adopted from his orphanage as possible. Over 100 children have been adopted from there in the last 3 years.
We feel very blessed to have gone to the orphanage and to Madelyn's finding site. I know the pictures we took will mean so much to her in the years to come.
We will leave for Guangzhou in 2 days. We like Nanchang, but it feels like we have been here forever. Our hotel beds are rock hard, and none of us have slept very well.
We miss you all and will post more tomorrow!